Paul Pember

Paul F. Pember

Apr 20, 1957 - May 17, 2020
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Paul F. Pember died peacefully on May 17, 2020 at his home. He was 63 years old. Born on
April 20, 1957 in White Plains, NY, son of the late Frederick and Katherine (Myck) Pember. Paul was a Byram Hills High School graduate where he was captain of the basketball team.
On December 2, 1995, he married the love of his life Barbara Durkin of Brewster, NY.
Paul enjoyed time spent at his lake house in Amston, CT relaxing on his pontoon boat fishing. He always tried catching “Old Moe.” He was meticulous about how his lawn looked and loved being outdoors. Taking walks with his wife and dog were one of his favorite past-times. He also loved watching westerns on television!!!
Paul is survived by his siblings, Debra Brazee of Danbury, CT, Nancy (John) King of Armonk, NY,Gary (Debra) Pember of Cromwell, CT, Thomas Pember (deceased), and Karin (Todd) Sterling of Danbury, CT. He leaves behind 13 nieces and nephews and 13 grand neices and nephews.
Paul was a truck driver with North Castle Disposal in Armonk, NY for many years prior to his retirement.
There will be a private cremation for Paul. The family will be announcing a “Celebration of Life” at a later date due to the Covid-19 Pandemic.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Diabetes Association, the Putnam Humane Society in Carmel, NY or St Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.
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Robert Schoenberg

Posted at 06:31am
Barbara, I am so very sorry to learn of Paul's passing. We had so many laughs over the years that I know he'll be remembered with a warm spot whenever his name pops up. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Bob Schoenberg

Suzanne Mastro Holden

Posted at 09:15am
Debbie, I am so sorry to hear about Paul. My condolences to you and your brothers and sisters.

With all our thoughts and prayers Nicole & Heather Nugent

Posted at 03:23pm
May your branches reach us from the heavens to the earth you will be missed
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Amy Sroka Posted at 09:23pm

Memories ....what great times at The Olive Branch, Paul was a regular and always wore a smile for us. He always had a joke to tell and a story to tell...sometimes a FISH story but never the less, entertaining. Will miss him, Barbara you were the love of his life and has said “you were the best thing that happen to him (besides his buddy Jake). Prayers to the Pember/Durkin family. RIP Paulie. 😢

Alison Michel

Posted at 12:29pm
Paul was the gentle soul who cared about everyone and took time out of his day to help anyone in need. I will miss his wit and sweetness. I am so sorry Barbara for your loss!

Kathleen Ferris

Posted at 08:22pm
Barbara. so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Condolences and prayers to you and your loved ones. Kathy Ferris

Barbara Posted at 12:18am

Thank you Kathy

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